Approval Seeking: Breaking Free from the Maze of External Validation

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Imagine for a moment that you’re navigating a labyrinthine maze with towering walls and narrow, winding passageways. With each step, you’re greeted by signs—some pointing toward “Acceptance,” others toward “Rejection.” Your heart pounds as you make each decision, partly guided by the ever-watchful eyes painted on the walls, their gaze following your every move. It’s … Read more

Journey to Your Authentic Self: A Guide to Self-Discovery

illustration of a man hiding his authentic self behind a mask

Picture this: You find yourself in a grand ballroom adorned with crystal chandeliers and golden drapes. The air is thick with the scent of roses and the murmur of masked guests engaged in polite conversation. You, too, are wearing a mask, intricately designed to conceal your true identity. As you mingle and exchange pleasantries, you … Read more

Esther Perel on Fitting In vs. Belonging: A Cross-Cultural Dilemma

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The pursuit of self-love and fulfillment often requires navigating different cultural values and expectations. This dilemma is poignantly explored in a counseling session on the popular podcast “Where Should We Begin?” between renowned therapist Esther Perel and a caller of Pakistani descent. On the show, Perel engages in one-time intervention calls to help couples and … Read more